You do not need to rush the season you are in to be happy

Thirtee Free is a space where I share my life as it is.

It is about learning to enjoy each season of life instead of rushing through it. Letting real emotions exist. Letting them move through the body without hiding them or turning them into performance. Some days are lighter. Some days are heavier.

I am not where society said I should be by now. And I’ve learned that does not mean I am behind. It means I am exactly where I need to be. Every day, I quiet the voices that say I am too old for new beginnings, too late for my happily ever after, too delayed for the life I imagined, or too cringe for what I am currently living. Those voices are loud, but they do not define me anymore.

Why blogging? Because on social media, everything is time-based and goal-oriented. Posts have a lifespan. Views matter. Engagement is expected. Here, none of that does.

This is not content made to be consumed quickly. It is me sharing my truth as it happens. It is up to you to read or not. To stay or leave. To come back when you need it. To relate, or to use it as a reminder that your grass can be green right where you are.

 This space exists to keep me grounded in the now, 

and to show that you can be too. 

A place for honesty, not perfection.